I’m a big believer in birthdays. I think EVERYONE should get a special day. Your birthday is one day out of the year where the people who love you have a concerted opportunity to “say”: ‘hey, thanks for being in my life, you’re the only you there is’. I try to make others get that too, giving as good as I get. Years ago, when we were just friends, I threw my husband his first birthday party. I couldn’t believe that no one had taken the time to make him feel special for a day, for god’s sake! People deserve a day to themselves. Steve is my official birthday designee, in that he is designated in “charge” of my birthday, and as he is my beloved, I am in charge of his. Everyone deserves a birthday designee, if you don’t have one, one should be assigned to you, like a public defender, damnit!
Today I turn 31,and I am happy for it. This morning I was given sleepy husband-on-vacation-and-still-in-bed happy birthday mumbles, and a much more coherent call later. Later in the morning, my mom and dad called me from Big Mama (their motor home) in Lake George. They had themselves on speakerphone and sang me a happy birthday song. Last year it was in Spanish, this year it was in English, but with an email to my work addy in Spanish that read as follows:
“Querida hija,
Te deseamos mucha felicidad, amor, y salud hoy en el dia de tu nacimiento. Disfruta tu juventud con tu esposo.
Te queremos, Mami, Papi y Nuala.”
That translates to: “Dear daughter, we wish you much happiness, love, and health on the day of your birth. Enjoy your youth with your husband. We/with love (iffy on the use of queremos there) Mom, dad, and Nuala”
Steve is home making me Pretzel Crack for the first time, after a false start last night and an emergency call to Grandma Pat. Anyone who had it at my bridal shower can attest as to how good that salty, sweet and tart goodness is. I am a lucky gal.
Thanks to those who have already wished me well, especially Amy, who never forgets anyone. Ever. She’s awesome like that, and even though I flaked on her birthday, she sent me a beautiful pair of earrings (plus a card and funny magnet) in the mail! My husband took one look at them and said, “wow, she’s got you down pat”. I’m wearing them today, thank you Amy! She even texted me this morning, tired from work. I aim to redeem myself in person to her at WOOL, and I’d like to link to the gift I know she’s going to love, only that would spoil the surprise.
Cross your fingers that the weather clears up like it’s supposed to for the picnic my husband has planned on Saturday for family and friends. If you’re coming, I can’t wait to see you there… if you can’t make it, I’ll keep you in my heart.

















































